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Been so long not to blog ... 

After write a short new post, im surfing

and read Neng biker's blog

found her post about name card and click her link coz I DO REALLY need one!

Name card is not just a name card

its bussiness card

help you to build your link

it happened a lot when i meet people offline

friends of my friends

friends of my family

even strangers in the streets

we exchange our personal info

and it will be nice to just give them  your name card

 instead of write them down on papers X_X

i already have one but i design it myself hahaha

that's why i said i need professional's opinion

i hope kartunama.net can help me

STEP UP

When you feel that one by one , all your list checked to become true ....
i think its time to step up to a higher level !

ones , Einstein said
" its insanity , to do the same thing over and over again and expecting different results "

ITS TIME TO MAKE A CHANGE !
Because ... i need sparks , surprises , shocked to feel ALIVE

Opera Van Java

I always never be the kind of person

who will win lottery tickets,

or win another random gifts.

I will win something if i submit writings or papers.

I never do that again until last week

i submit short story and i win!

Trans7 invite me come to one of their TV program

Meet and Greet with "Opera Van Java's" cast

and win two tickets for Live show in Malang! yay!!

Opera Van Java is one of most popular comedy-Tv program in Indonesia now

One of their jokes lately is about how Andre (one of the cast)

seduce girls and women in the story by saying something like ...

Andre : Hi girls...

Girl : Hi ...

Andre : I believe your father is a farmer

Girl : How do you know that ?

Andre : Because you've been hoing my heart apart... LoL

we watch the program almost every night,

and i just can't believe my stolid - unromantic husband influence by them.

One day, when he was still in his office, he text message me :

"Hun,is it true that u'r father was a bus driver?"

( i was angry because one of his friend was my dad's friend,

i thought someone try to tell bad things about my father )

i'm not telling that being a bus driver is not a good job,

but the fact that it's not true that made me furious.

i grab my phone and called him immediately,

without saying hello, i asked him :

"WHO SAID THAT ? "

- and he laughed -

( me - confuse )

and he answer me by saying :

"Because you've been going to and fro in my heart all day long"
OMG .. hahahaha

and by wrote that short - true story i won!
the ticket was nothing actually, all that matters is the fact that :I WON!! :D
* howmany times i mentioned that i won ?
im embarrassing and pathetic ^_^ i know *

hope u win something too today guys! cheers!

Love to write ?

Remember that i have problem with my short term memories?

yes, i still do..

eventhough i already put lots of reminder everywhere

its been a while not to post anything in my blog,

because,
i dont know where the hell i put my data cable?!!

that is why i end up writing
around the world in 80 second

which i can just goggle the image :p

and today, thanks to my hubby (again)..
I FOUND IT! :D

remember my post "JUMP" ?

this is what i want to share days ago ..

mr postman came with my order!

yay.. they finally arrived

cant wait to finish read them ...

for the first time i have a friend who write a book!

She published it in nulisbuku.com

if you one of them

who love to read and write

Self published your own book

and follow your dream!

Congrats, Wina... ^_^ great job!

Memories

It is heart breaking

your hands tight up

your feet frozen

your brain seems like been stolen

Dont know what to do

Dont know what to say

When someone that you love in pain

When someone that you love struggling

Sweet memories that left behind

Will stay here in my mind

Love you grandma

May you rest in peace

"I look back on my childhood and thank the stars above. For everything you gave me,
but mostly for your love."

Wayne F. Winters

Clumsy Me

Waked up by neighbours who are busy already with their children and daily activities. With eyes still close, i reach under my pillow for my cell phone, where the hell is it ?? aaagghh, i cant find it! i have to walk to my living room try to check the time.. and find out it's still 05.00 AM!! i got back to my bed but .....after 5 minutes the sound of a rolling door opened is killing me, they should fix it soon! motorcycle pass by ... one, two, three.. Ohhh God, that's it .. i got to get up from my bed now, better than listening all these noise ...Its been over a year since i moved into this house, yet i havent really adapt with all of this. I used to wake up in a quiet peaceful morning.

Clean up dining table, cooking, serving breakfast, sweeping, mopping, takes almost 2 hours to finished them all. After taking a nice bath, im waiting for my husband back from his office taking his night shift. With a cup of hot tea , watching morning news from national channel.... hoping that they can start our daily days with bad news no more...where's my remote control ? hhmm...

R inggo run like a crazy dog to the front door, ... Someone's there! He welcome David with his tail moving here and there :D hahaha.. . Let's have breakfast! Ringgo sitting next to David 's chair waiting for his kindness to share some roasted chicken. Rice , roasted chicken , fried tempe and tahu ( tofu ), and we love sambal (chili souce) very much.

image from Here

David remind me that it's 8 o'clock already, ok ok .. give me 5 minutes, i;ll be ready after clean up dishes, 5 minutes giving ringgo his food and water, checking stove, 5 minutes put on some make up, 5 minutes choosing clothes,.. OH NO! Its 8.25! I got to hurry!! Bye,... grabbed my bag and jacket and i run.. standing in front of my front door, i turn back. KEY!! where's my key ? David helped me find my key.. and it took 10 minutes until we finally find it. i'll be late for sure ...
Arrived at my office 08.50. yes, my office is so close i shouldnt be late! Entering my office with office, turn on PC , walked into the kitchen try to restart the day with a cup of coffee... The phone ring , i t was my agent tell me that she already text messaging me the names of the passenger who join Bangkok Tour next month, asked me to check out the names. OK! Looking for my cell phone ... i should have put it in my bag, no ... its not there , my jacket, no .. its not there too! AAggghh.... i left it back home!!!

The End

Get the picture ?
Well,.. am i exaggerated about the real situation here? hhmm.. maybe...
But i am that clumsy! forgetting small things that actually important! Driving license, ID, KEYS!, wallet, etc..
I pray everyday that my husband wont give up on me :D hehehe...
That's why, i try to be more organize. Always put things in the same place or else i'll be find myself in a chaos.
So, I have reminder everywhere .... just like this one

my reminder board ... :D

a birthday reminder on my fridge! :D

This one help me to list recipe

i always have notebooks,.. but sometimes i forget to put them into my bag too. ..:( i can survive without them for now. I also have reminder in my cell phone...

But how can i remember things i put into my cell phone if i forget to bring it along ??

Wish me luck

Modest....

Aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana
seperti kata yang tak sempat diucapkan kayu kepada api
yang menjadikannya abu

Aku ingin mencintaimu dengan sederhana
Seperti isyarat yang tak sempat
dikirimkan awan kepada hujan
yang menjadikannya tiada

( Djoko Sapardi )

Cinta....
Kenapa cinta selalu diagung-agungkan menjadi sesuatu yang sakral dan seakan sulit untuk ditemukan ?
Haruskah cinta disertai dengan kecemburuan?
Kalau tidak cemburu apakah itu berarti tidak ada cinta?

Demi mengejar kata cinta, banyak orang merelakan perkawinannya hancur di tengah jalan. Apakah yang menjadikan cinta itu bisa hilang tak ber bekas ?
Tidakkah perkawinan yang berasal dari kata cinta itu layak untuk diperjuangkan?
Begitu banyak pertanyaan yang datang dalam pikiranku, mengira2 apa yang sebenarnya terjadi.

Dari situlah puisi dari Djoko Sapardi ini menjadi nyata karena cinta tidak harus dipenuhi dengan hasrat yang berlebihan, cinta tidak harus dipenuhi dengan kemarahan yang diatasnamakan kecemburuan, cinta harusnya tidak ada kata permusuhan.
Mencintailah dengan sederhana.....

Awal....

Jangan kau kira cinta datang
dari keakraban yang lama
dan pendekatan yang tekun

Cinta adalah kesesuaian jiwa
dan jika itu tak pernah ada
Cinta tak akan pernah tercipta
dalam hitungan abad maupun tahun

( K G )

Jika kita mendalami kutipan di atas ini, pepatah jawa yang mengatakan "Witing tresna jalaran saka kulina" (=cinta berasal dari kebiasaan )adalah dua persepsi yang bertolak belakang.

Setelah dipahami benar benar ternyata pepatah jawa ini memang perlu dikoreksi lagi. Cinta tidak akan datang walau dipaksakan dalam kondisi apapun , tidak juga dalam hitungan waktu, bulan , tahun....

Suatu kali pernah kuberikan penolakan pada seseorang dengan sebuah janji " Biarkan waktu yang bicara ... " dengan pengertian pada seseorang tersebut bahwa pada akhirnya jawaban TIDAK akan berubah menjadi YA ...
Terbukti dengan berjalan nya waktu , kata TIDAK itu tidak pernah berubah.

Akan tetapi,.. ketika waktu pula yang mempertemukan cinta, bukan hanya kebiasaan itu yang menjadikan nya ada. Dia datang tanpa diundang dan tanpa bisa diperkirakan sebelumnya , dia adalah sebuah anugerah , sebuah kesesuaian hati dan jiwa yang datang dari Nya.